Real "How do I...?" questions Andrea Reynolds receives and
will answer privately or in her weekly
column
Personal
Challenges
1. How do I raise the
$50,000 for my mom's surgery before we lose her?
2. How do I tell unsuspecting parents
that the babysitter they leave their child with, who lives
next door to me, is often violent?
3. How do I get the parents of the boy
next door to understand they have a potential school
shooter living under their roof and what can I do before he
takes action?
4. After exhausting all ideas, how do I
find financing for a used mobile home to keep a roof over
my family's head when I have no savings and bad credit?
5. How do I find relief from these
chronic migraines?
6. How do I leave my married lover, when
I really want her to leave her husband and marry me?
7. I've been accused of insider trading
and about to lose my entire financial empire. What could I
do to prove my innocence?
8. How do I cope with my husband's
ongoing affair?
9. What can I do to get my husband a job
when he's been unemployed for 12 years?
10. How do I stop my family from passing
along as gossip, what I share with them in confidence?
11. How do I get these feelings of
suicide out of my head before I do something drastic?
12. I've received death threats from a
man who has seen me on television - I'm a broadcaster. The
police won't do anything; what can I do?
13. How do I help my lonely sister stop
giving away all her money to men?
14. What can I do if I suspect my
neighbors have serially abused 4 pets in their home?
15. How do I get my boss to understand
that one of my co-workers is a bully and causing me great
stress?
16. How do I earn enough money to live
without resorting to robbing a bank?
17. Most of my neighbors and co-workers
say I'm a jerk and don't want anything to do with me, how
do I start to show them I can be a mature and responsible
adult?
18. I discovered someone has plagiarized
my book and is giving it away for free on the Internet
under her company name; what can I do to stop her and get
compensation?
19. I'm more than 200 pounds overweight;
how do I find a way to lose this weight before I have a
heart attack?
20. I think my Dad may be planning to
kill himself; what do I do before he tries something?
21. I can't control my temper; how do I
stop blowing up before I actually hurt someone?
22. How do I keep my child from being
abducted and harmed?
23. My new home was visibly damaged in a
controlled burning of a derelict building that got out of
control. How do I get someone to pay for the needed
repairs?
24. How do I help a woman who denies her
husband beats her?
Social
challenges
1. How can my family gain acceptance in a
small town where we've moved to in which we seem to be
ostracized and resented?
2. How do we eliminate the drug problem
in our high school?
3. How do we get our loud, obnoxious
neighbors to be quiet?
4. How do we get our small, quiet
cul-de-sac back after one neighbor put up a basketball hoop
and the noise from non-resident kids has become unbearable?
5. What can I do when my landlord openly
allows some tenants to break all the rules while the rest
of us are threatened with eviction for doing the same
things?
6. How do I make sense of the rape and
murder of an 11 year old girl in my community?
7. A woman was murdered by her husband in
my community and none of the neighbors called 9-1-1 when
she was screaming for help; how can I get this community to
be more mutually supportive of each other?
Tell Andrea Reynolds your challenge. crisiswriter@gmail.com She can either provide
private brainstorming
for you for a fee or she
may be able to answer your challenge in her
newspaper advice
column.
The
answer may already be in print!
Even executives and professionals have a
personal life and things can go wrong. Here are some
solutions to real situations some of Andrea's clients have
experienced and survived.
You can purchase publications Andrea
wrote to give you solutions:
1. You sometimes (often?)
feel invisible in business and in
public and
want to increase the amount of attention, respect and
recognition that you command.
2. You think your mate may be swindling you
and you want to protect
your assets.
3. You're not earning enough to pay your
bills and
it's a chronic problem you face that you want to
correct.
4. You've been giving your services or advice away for
free and
you wish you could be paid for your work instead.
5. Someone you know is
facing extreme poverty
and you want to help them
but aren't sure how.
6. Someone is harassing you to the point of
stalking and you need to know what to do.
